Are You A Confident Dater?
Dating is designed to be fun.
But for many people, the fear of rejection makes the idea of approaching someone we’re attracted to anything but fun.
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Building your dating confidence can make you enjoy dating much more, and it can also make you more successful at dating…
To develop your dating confidence, it’s imperative to focus on your good qualities and what you can bring to a relationship. What often happens, however, is that we focus on our flaws and the things we don’t like about ourselves, because we’re sure that others won’t like these things either.
But, when you focus on your positive qualities, you are immediately more attractive to others simply because you’re confident. Those things you don’t like about yourself likely don’t stand out to others the way they stand out to you.
Take a look at these ways you can help build your dating confidence. With a little work, you can become at ease with approaching and talking to other people. And, more importantly, you can be at ease with yourself.
List things you like about yourself. Are you talented? Can you make others laugh? Are you successful and good at conversation?
Sometimes we ruin our own self-esteem because we forget how much we have to offer. Remind yourself before every outing of all your great qualities. Write them down if you have to.
Remember that you’re someone a member of the opposite sex would be lucky to have.Hang out with friends who are confident. When you hang out with people who are insecure, outings can become little pity parties.
On the other hand, when you go out with friends who are comfortable in their own skin, they make you feel more comfortable and confident. These folks are also likely to be better at meeting new people. You may be able to meet people more easily when you’re with them.
Talk to new people with no expectations. Part of the reason we get so discouraged in dating is because we approach outings with expectations. Go to the next party or happy hour with only one expectation: to have a good time.
This way, you’ll never look desperate to a member of the opposite sex. In addition, you won’t be disappointed if you don’t meet a special someone. As long as having fun is all you expect, you’ll enjoy those outings so much more.
When you’re not expecting to make a connection, you may actually find that you talk to more people, because the pressure is off. You may also find that it makes it much easier to make new friends, in addition to meeting potential love interests.
Try meeting people online. Online dating is the greatest thing to ever happen to shy daters. Meeting and getting to know someone through an online dating website is so much easier than in person.
Of course, you will eventually have to meet in person for the relationships to go anywhere. But, if the two of you already like each other, the first meeting in person is so much easier.